Debate and conceding
Concede a point, counter it and argue fairly. Lesson 57 of 58: Mastery, CEFR C2.
Conceding and countering
- The strongest arguers concede what is true before they counter: “Admittedly, it is expensive. However, it will save us money within two years.” “That’s a fair point, but have you considered…?” “While I agree that…, I think…” Conceding makes you sound reasonable, and makes your counter land harder.
- Admittedly, the risks are real. But so are the rewards.
- While I take your point about cost, I think quality matters more here.
Steelmanning
- Before arguing against a view, state it at its strongest, better than its supporters might: “If I understand your position, you’re saying… and that’s a strong argument because…” Then respond. It shows respect, catches misunderstandings, and persuades the undecided.
- Let me make sure I’ve understood your argument.
- The strongest case for that is…
Challenging fairly
- Challenge evidence, not people: “What’s the source for that figure?” “Does that apply in every case?” “Isn’t that a bit of a generalisation?” Point out a jump in logic: “That doesn’t necessarily follow.” And know when to stop: “I think we’ll have to agree to disagree on that.”
- That doesn’t necessarily follow.
- Where does that figure come from?
- I think we’ll have to agree to disagree.
- Tip: Changing your mind when shown good evidence is not losing: say so. “You’ve convinced me” is a sign of strength.
Lines to have ready
- Admittedly,…, but… (Concede, then counter)
- That’s a fair point, but… (Concede, then counter)
- If I understand your argument correctly,… (Steelmanning)
- That doesn’t necessarily follow. (Challenging logic)
- You’ve convinced me. (Changing your mind gracefully)
Your turn to speak
- Debate yourself on “Should everyone learn a second language at school?” Steelman the side you disagree with, then argue your side, conceding one point and countering it, and finish with a fair conclusion.
- I stated the other side at its strongest
- I conceded before countering
- I challenged evidence, not people
- My conclusion was clear and fair
Watch your video back for
- Eye contact: on the camera, not the screen or the floor
- Posture: upright and still, shoulders down
- Hands: visible and open, moving with the words
- Face: it shows what you mean, and smiles where it should
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